feat: default to Month view and implement household services filter toggle for parents

src/app/dashboard/kalender/_components/termin-list.tsx

@@ -63,6 +63,7 @@ export type DutyCalendarItemDto = {
   status: DutyAssignmentStatus;
   startDate: Date;
   endDate: Date;
+  isOwn: boolean;
 };
 
 export type NotdienstCalendarItemDto = {
@@ -150,7 +151,7 @@ export function TerminList({
 }
 
 function DutyRow({ duty, isAdmin }: { duty: DutyCalendarItemDto; isAdmin: boolean }) {
-  const color = "var(--good)";
+  const color = duty.isOwn ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)" : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)";
   const [menuOpen, setMenuOpen] = useState(false);
 
   return (
@@ -170,7 +171,9 @@ function DutyRow({ duty, isAdmin }: { duty: DutyCalendarItemDto; isAdmin: boolea
         </p>
       </div>
       <div className="flex items-center gap-2 relative">
-        <CategoryPill color={color}>Elterndienst</CategoryPill>
+        <CategoryPill color={color}>
+          {duty.isOwn ? "Mein Elterndienst" : "Elterndienst"}
+        </CategoryPill>
         {isAdmin ? (
           <div className="relative">
             <Button