feat: default to Month view and implement household services filter toggle for parents

src/app/dashboard/kalender/_components/calendar-overview-client.tsx

@@ -61,7 +61,8 @@ const categories = [
   { label: "Elternabend", type: TerminType.ELTERNABEND, color: "oklch(0.50 0.10 280)" },
   { label: "Fest", type: TerminType.KITA_FEST, color: "var(--good)" },
   { label: "Geburtstag", type: TerminType.GEBURTSTAG_INTERN, color: "oklch(0.50 0.10 320)" },
-  { label: "Elterndienst", type: "elterndienst", color: "oklch(0.60 0.15 160)" },
+  { label: "Mein Elterndienst", type: "mein-elterndienst", color: "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)" },
+  { label: "Elterndienst", type: "elterndienst", color: "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)" },
   { label: "Mein Notdienst", type: "mein-notdienst", color: "oklch(0.60 0.18 45)" },
   { label: "Notdienst", type: "notdienst", color: "oklch(0.75 0.10 50)" },
   { label: "Sonstiges", type: TerminType.SONSTIGES, color: "var(--ink-muted)" },
@@ -76,9 +77,10 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
   userId: string;
   isAdmin: boolean;
 }) {
-  const [view, setView] = useState<"liste" | "monat" | "agenda">("liste");
+  const [view, setView] = useState<"liste" | "monat" | "agenda">("monat");
   const [searchQuery, setSearchQuery] = useState("");
   const [activeTypes, setActiveTypes] = useState<Set<string>>(new Set());
+  const [filterScope, setFilterScope] = useState<"own" | "all">(isAdmin ? "all" : "own");
 
   // Month navigation state
   const [currentMonthDate, setCurrentMonthDate] = useState(new Date());
@@ -106,6 +108,12 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
   // Filter logic
   const filteredEvents = useMemo(() => {
     return termine.filter((item) => {
+      // 0. Filter by scope (own vs all)
+      if (filterScope === "own") {
+        if (item.kind === "duty" && !item.isOwn) return false;
+        if (item.kind === "notdienst" && !item.isOwn) return false;
+      }
+
       // 1. Search Query filter
       const query = searchQuery.trim().toLowerCase();
       if (query) {
@@ -129,7 +137,9 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
       if (activeTypes.size > 0) {
         const itemType =
           item.kind === "duty"
-            ? "elterndienst"
+            ? item.isOwn
+              ? "mein-elterndienst"
+              : "elterndienst"
             : item.kind === "notdienst"
             ? item.isOwn
               ? "mein-notdienst"
@@ -140,7 +150,7 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
 
       return true;
     });
-  }, [termine, searchQuery, activeTypes]);
+  }, [termine, searchQuery, activeTypes, filterScope]);
 
   // Check if an event falls on a specific day
   const isEventOnDay = (item: CalendarListItemDto, day: Date) => {
@@ -177,6 +187,7 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
     <div className="space-y-5">
       {/* Search and Filters Header */}
       <div className="flex flex-wrap items-center justify-between gap-3">
+        <div className="flex items-center flex-wrap gap-3">
           <div className="inline-flex overflow-hidden rounded-full border border-[var(--hairline)] bg-[var(--surface)]">
             {(["liste", "monat", "agenda"] as const).map((v) => (
               <button
@@ -196,6 +207,36 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
             ))}
           </div>
 
+          {!isAdmin && (
+            <div className="inline-flex overflow-hidden rounded-full border border-[var(--hairline)] bg-[var(--surface)] p-0.5">
+              <button
+                type="button"
+                onClick={() => setFilterScope("own")}
+                className={[
+                  "h-8 px-4 rounded-full text-[12px] font-semibold transition-all duration-200",
+                  filterScope === "own"
+                    ? "bg-[var(--accent-deep)] text-[var(--surface)] shadow-sm"
+                    : "text-[var(--ink-soft)] hover:text-[var(--ink)] hover:bg-[var(--surface-2)]",
+                ].join(" ")}
+              >
+                Meine Dienste
+              </button>
+              <button
+                type="button"
+                onClick={() => setFilterScope("all")}
+                className={[
+                  "h-8 px-4 rounded-full text-[12px] font-semibold transition-all duration-200",
+                  filterScope === "all"
+                    ? "bg-[var(--accent-deep)] text-[var(--surface)] shadow-sm"
+                    : "text-[var(--ink-soft)] hover:text-[var(--ink)] hover:bg-[var(--surface-2)]",
+                ].join(" ")}
+              >
+                Alle Dienste
+              </button>
+            </div>
+          )}
+        </div>
+
         <div className="flex flex-1 flex-wrap items-center justify-end gap-2">
           {/* Category chips */}
           <div className="flex flex-wrap gap-1.5">
@@ -291,16 +332,40 @@ export function CalendarOverviewClient({
                 >
                   {item.kind === "duty" ? (
                     <div className="flex items-start gap-3">
-                      <div className="flex h-9 w-9 shrink-0 items-center justify-center rounded-lg bg-[var(--good-soft)] text-[var(--good)]">
+                      <div
-                        <WashingMachine className="h-5 w-5 [stroke-width:1.7]" />
+                        className="absolute inset-y-3 left-0 w-[4px] rounded-r-full"
+                        style={{
+                          backgroundColor: item.isOwn
+                            ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                            : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)",
+                        }}
+                      />
+                      <div className="flex h-9 w-9 shrink-0 items-center justify-center rounded-lg bg-[var(--surface-2)] text-[var(--ink-soft)] ml-2">
+                        <WashingMachine className="h-5 w-5 [stroke-width:1.7]" style={{ color: item.isOwn ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)" : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)" }} />
                       </div>
                       <div className="flex-1 min-w-0">
                         <div className="flex items-center justify-between gap-2">
                           <h4 className="font-semibold text-[15px] text-[var(--ink)] truncate">
                             {item.title}
                           </h4>
-                          <Badge variant="secondary" className="bg-[oklch(0.95_0.02_160)] text-[oklch(0.40_0.10_160)]">
+                          <Badge
-                            Elterndienst
+                            variant="secondary"
+                            style={{
+                              color: item.isOwn
+                                ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                                : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)",
+                              borderColor:
+                                (item.isOwn
+                                  ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                                  : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)") + "44",
+                              backgroundColor:
+                                (item.isOwn
+                                  ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                                  : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)") + "11",
+                            }}
+                            className="border text-[10px]"
+                          >
+                            {item.isOwn ? "Mein Elterndienst" : "Elterndienst"}
                           </Badge>
                         </div>
                         <p className="mt-1 text-sm text-[var(--ink-soft)]">
@@ -604,7 +669,9 @@ function MonthView({
                 {dayEvents.slice(0, 3).map((item) => {
                   const color =
                     item.kind === "duty"
-                      ? "oklch(0.60 0.15 160)"
+                      ? item.isOwn
+                        ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                        : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)"
                       : item.kind === "notdienst"
                       ? item.isOwn
                         ? "oklch(0.60 0.18 45)"
@@ -709,6 +776,10 @@ function AgendaView({
                   ? item.isOwn
                     ? "oklch(0.60 0.18 45)"
                     : "oklch(0.75 0.10 50)"
+                  : item.kind === "duty"
+                  ? item.isOwn
+                    ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)"
+                    : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)"
                   : "oklch(0.60 0.15 160)";
 
               return (

src/app/dashboard/kalender/_components/termin-list.tsx

@@ -63,6 +63,7 @@ export type DutyCalendarItemDto = {
   status: DutyAssignmentStatus;
   startDate: Date;
   endDate: Date;
+  isOwn: boolean;
 };
 
 export type NotdienstCalendarItemDto = {
@@ -150,7 +151,7 @@ export function TerminList({
 }
 
 function DutyRow({ duty, isAdmin }: { duty: DutyCalendarItemDto; isAdmin: boolean }) {
-  const color = "var(--good)";
+  const color = duty.isOwn ? "oklch(0.60 0.16 160)" : "oklch(0.75 0.08 160)";
   const [menuOpen, setMenuOpen] = useState(false);
 
   return (
@@ -170,7 +171,9 @@ function DutyRow({ duty, isAdmin }: { duty: DutyCalendarItemDto; isAdmin: boolea
         </p>
       </div>
       <div className="flex items-center gap-2 relative">
-        <CategoryPill color={color}>Elterndienst</CategoryPill>
+        <CategoryPill color={color}>
+          {duty.isOwn ? "Mein Elterndienst" : "Elterndienst"}
+        </CategoryPill>
         {isAdmin ? (
           <div className="relative">
             <Button

src/app/dashboard/kalender/page.tsx

@@ -134,6 +134,7 @@ export default async function KalenderPage({
       startDate: true,
       endDate: true,
       status: true,
+      familyId: true,
       dutyType: {
         select: {
           name: true,
@@ -195,15 +196,21 @@ export default async function KalenderPage({
             participation.status === EventParticipationStatus.ATTENDING,
         ),
     })),
-    ...dutyAssignmentRows.map((assignment) => ({
+    ...dutyAssignmentRows.map((assignment) => {
+      const isOwn = assignment.familyId === familyIdForParticipation;
+      return {
         kind: "duty" as const,
         id: assignment.id,
-      title: assignment.dutyType.name,
+        title: isOwn
+          ? `Mein Elterndienst (${assignment.dutyType.name})`
+          : `${assignment.dutyType.name} (${assignment.family.name})`,
         familyName: assignment.family.name,
         status: assignment.status,
         startDate: assignment.startDate,
         endDate: assignment.endDate,
-    })),
+        isOwn,
+      };
+    }),
     ...notdienstAssignmentRows.map((assignment) => {
       const isOwn = assignment.child.familyId === familyIdForParticipation;
       return {